The Vivacious Tiffany

It's common knowledge that the feminine gender of the homo sapiens species are arguably the most complex beings on the surface of the earth so I'm gonna take a lotta time to finish this article. 

My love for reading started from my early childhood. Being that I was the only child of my parents, I didn't have siblings to play and fight with. I also didn't have much friends. My dad was a lecturer  teaching The use of English in Yabatech polytechnic and he was always reading novels and literature texts and I was always wondering what he found so interesting in those books.  There was a time curiosity pushed me to pick up one of the recommended texts for his students and I began to read. I   found it fascinating!

  There are loads of things i can't write here but there are basically 7 things about this crazy being..............     1. My real name is Fanimokun Oluwatoyin Oluwaseun. I named myself Tiffany .First of all because I always wanted an English name , and then a friend started calling me Tiffany as a derivative of my surname and first name ( 'T' from Toyin and then 'Fani' from Fanimokun). I later checked up the meaning of the name and found out it was actually nice (It means appearance or revelation

   In my last post, I was outlining the different kinda guys and the common ways guys woo girls. For this post i think I'm just gonna narrow the focus of my writeup to happenings in my prestigious school,   the University of Lagos, the institution of first choice and the nation's pride! Due to the general hyping of the school,

I had a hard time starting this post cos I didn't just know where to start from. Guys are one set of amazing creatures! They do the silliest, most annoying and the most unbelievable things.

Dear future husband,      First of all, I want you to know I'm not gonna marry you because the society says I should get married. But rather because you have stolen my heart away.       I've see lots of guys who have treated me badly.I feel like I always meet the right person at the wrong time or the wrong person at the right time. I was already begining to doubt that you were actually coming .        I've been anticipating your arrival . I'm glad you are here now. All my life I've been waiting for you,(not a Mr. Perfect), but the guy with that special something.Thank God! Unlike Asa's ''The one that never comes'', you are finally here!

This is a subject that causes me great distress whenever i dwell on it. It's just so infuriating!The whole weaker sex bullshit begins from birth, girls are brought up with the orientation that they are weak, fragile and are meant to rely on their men to provide for them.        Looking at the basics, this kinda talk is reasonably good but in this modern age it's becoming old-fashioned and unrealistic for a young lady to be without plans for her own future. some girls grow up thinking, well,what's the use of their education when they're just gonna end up in the kitchen. This is absolutely wrong! There are situations that are commonplace nowadays but were rare or even not possible in those days.  Things like divorce and others, they were not as rampant as they are now. Imagine a situation whereby a woman who has been hearing from childhood that her place is in the kitchen and the other room[ 😉 ], is suddenly left by her husband to fend for herself and...

Hey guys!!! I'm sorry it took me so long to post this. My schedule has been hectic.   After the Tunde episode, my boyfriend got back and we continued our lives. Until one day. I had been trying to hide the guilt I had been dealing with since I kissed Tunde but after sometime I couldn't keep it anymore.  I told my bf about it. I didn't tell him the name of the person , just told him I kissed someone and I wanted to free my mind by telling him. Of course he felt bad about this and asked me to promise him that I would never repeat it,but I couldnt promise because I actually liked it. I told him so and he was devastated . Anyways , after sometime we got over the whole issue, but not before my bf found out it was Tunde that I kissed and they had a big fight over it. Well, that's all gone and settled and the then boyfriend is now an ex- boyfriend. NOW there's a new guy and I'm going all mushy over him. I hope this is the real deal. I think I'm in love!   Me...

One reason I hate acting on my crushes is because at the end of everything I sometimes lose interest in them. And it's kinda weird seeing someone you once had  an affair with when you guys aren't together anymore.  After the cute manager episode, I was a good gal for a while . I gained admission into Yaba College of Technology and my boyfriend as at that time was also there . His presence kinda made me blind to other guys. We were always together and I actually had a nice time for the period I was there. Then I gained admission into the University of Lagos! Hmmmnn........ .Due to the kinda reputation that Unilag has, everybody started telling my bf that I was gonna leave him soon. Even if I had intentions of breaking up with him before , the fact that people were expecting me to made me determined not to.  Until..... this particular guy came into the picture.Tunde (not real name ) was actually a family friend. He has this amazing personality, tall, handsome and appea...

              Crush.... Abeg, am i the only one that just crushes on guys crazily???!like i crush on guys anyhow. One thing is that, for me to crush on a person, the person must usually be in a position of authority, must be someone i can look up to in one way or the other. Either the person is older than me, smarter than me, more accomplished(like well in charge of his life) than me. He should sha be someone worth looking up to as a role model. kinda like a big bro figure. Probably because i don't have a brother and my dad is dead and the vacuum his absence created in my heart is craving to be filled . Over the years, right from when i was a kid, i always had bad cases of hero worship. I really don't see it as any thing bad, as far as i don't act on those feelings The first time i actually acted on one of those my infatuations was after my secondary school education. I went to work in a cyber cafe for a littl...

These guys are just giving person headache. Their matter af tire me sef! I've dated a guy for 3 years now, he was my first boyfriend, we've been together through thick and thin. Recently ,I  asked for some space to get myself together,and he has been on my neck since then. First of all, guys take note, its not all the time that a gal asks for space that she is actually breaking up with you. There are some gals that do that but if you know your gal well, you should know what she's capable of. As for me i wouldn't use that kinda method to beak up, if I'm gonna do it , I'm gonna do it fine and clear. Well,that's by the way. Now i have 3 guys asking me out, (my ex wanting to come back, a new guy calling and bugging me , and my BEST FRIEND!!) Well, i don't think i should be surprised about my bestie asking me out but i'm still surprised! I thought that after about 2 years of being best friends whatever feelings he might have for me would ha...

                        At last !  i have a blog i have always wanted to own a blog. somewhere i could express myself. well, here i am. i hope i'll  be able to continue this. cos for someone who knows me well,you'll know i'm quite a lazy person. i guess would function mostly as my diary than anything else. i wont dare own a diary cos of my mum. That woman is something else. There was this incident that occurred once. Being the writer that i am , there was this day i was idle and bored and i decided to write something.      I began to write a classic '' story of my life '' story.  the girl in the story was in her early twenties, had already had about 8 abortions , was bisexual, and had a bad womb .  After   a few months of writing the story i had forgotten about it. I don't know how my mum came across it . She just called me one morning and told me that she had a dream abou...